Avoid These Traps When Setting Your Goals
by Roxanne Allaire
Goal Setting. Did I just hear you roll your eyes? Yes, I believe I did
I can understand why some people moan at the thought of goal setting. Whether we realize it or not, it’s usually tied to memories of failure or disappointment to achieve something important to us, or to someone else (our company, manager, CEO, spouse, etc…). Some of us even convince ourselves that goal setting is a waste of time and, as I’ve heard it stated, “actually limits me in achieving more than that stated in my goal” (what a joke!)
I’m convinced that it’s not necessarily goal-setting itself that is painful, as much as it is HOW one goes about it. If done properly, goal setting will actually stimulate new ideas, solutions, and aspirations. And this makes it (dare I say) fun! Creating goals to achieve your dreams is exciting stuff. No question.
So that you can successfully revel in goal achievement, here are 7 traps to avoid when setting your personal and professional goals:
Trap 1: Failing to dream
When I’ve asked clients, family, and friends to create a list of at least 50 dreams (things they want to do, become, achieve or attain), I often get a ‘deer in the headlights’ look followed by a list of about 5 things. Why is that? Why is it so hard for many us to dream? Dreaming is not only healthy; it is a necessary first step for setting goals. Here is a tool that can help you think about the things you want to do/become/achieve/attain: Dream Inventory
Trap 2: Overlooking your starting point
With your dreams in hand, you’ve got to assess where you stand in key areas of your career and life. Simply doing a personal/organizational S.L.O.T. (Strengths, Limitations, Opportunities, Threats) analysis can help you understand your starting point. Clearly knowing your starting point helps in identifying the key areas you want to create goals.
Trap 3: “Storing” your goals in your brain
This simply is not going to work for you. We have got to write our goals down onto a piece of paper. I, too, have tried storing goals in my head only to forget, specifically, what the goal was until it morphed into something completely other than I originally intended. This practice further allowed me to make excuses for why I didn’t get something done right, or not at all. Sound familiar? Sorry…goals aren’t concrete unless they are written.
Trap 4: Adopting someone else’s goals as your own
If you did not create the goal you’re trying to achieve personally, you will not feel inspired toward achievement, nor will you likely achieve. For example, your director may say to you “We need you performing in the top 15% of the company” (of course they do). Your goal, in turn, should not be “I will perform in the top 15% of the company by Q1”. You should have several personal goals that, once achieved, have you exceeding 15% naturally.
Trap 5: Blowing off S.M.A.R.T. Criteria
You’ve heard of SMART goals: Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Realistically High, Trackable (time bound). A goal missing any one of these criteria will lack direction. The purpose of a goal is to provide direction so achievement can be realized. Ask yourself, is my goal specific or is it vague? Is it attainable or is it out of reach for me? Is it high enough and/or am I pushing myself enough? And finally, by what month, day, and year will I have achieved my goal? Be real with yourself.
Trap 6: Not planning for obstacles
Obstacles are inevitable. Whatever your SMART goal, there will be at a minimum one or two obstacles for which you must acknowledge as real, and 100% coming for you. What are they? Brainstorm all the possible obstacles that will destroy your goal achievement. Then ask yourself, what action steps do I need to take to overcome these obstacles when and as they occur? You may even find your action step becomes a goal in and of itself.
Trap 7: Failing to implement your action steps
Just like we need to write our SMART goals down on paper, we need to implement our actions steps toward achieving our goals and overcoming our obstacles. I keep my action steps on my Astrid TO/DO Application on my smart phone. You may have some other way. Whatever it is, keep track of your action steps. Prioritize them; give them deadlines.
We are often so busy we want to bypass writing down goals, thinking about goals, etc…the anxiety of today’s chaotic business environment provides a nice adrenaline rush, amongst other things. Remember to slow down for a few moments each day and remember your dreams, what you want, and why.
I love the phrase, “just do it!” But first we must ask ourselves, “just do what?” What is my aim? How long will it take me? How will I get there? Where will I start? When will I start? When will I finish? Why do I want to do this? Then…just do it!
Roxanne Allaire is President and a Business Development Coach at Roxx Consulting Service Inc. Through strategic positioning, new media marketing, and sales process design, she helps executives and business owners in the High Technology industry increase their attractiveness and crush their competition in our new economy marketplace. Roxx can be reached directly at Roxx Consulting Service @ 866.455.5552.
